Stress: the state when the body is not functioning as a coherent and unified whole. Given this definition, when in a state of stress, the bodys physiological functions fail to meet the individuals needs and desires. The individual and their body go out of alignment and fail to communicate and work together.

When infertility exists its a clear sign that ones body is not cooperating with that individuals desire to conceive a child and start a family. This only enhances the overall stress level. The net result is that the stress feeds on itself causing furhter stress. I call this loop "infertility stress".

Infertility stress sends the body and its reproductive capacity further out of alignment with the individual in that body creating feelings of helplessness and despair.

As a medical researcher and stress expert for over 15 years it has been my experience that this misalignment is the result of the beliefs we carry about ourselves, others, our lives, our situation etc. Beliefs conditioned in us throughout our lives wrestle control of our bodies away from us.

When a belief serves us well thats all well and good. However when it limits us in our life it can make one feel permanently enslaved. The discouragement that ensues only furthers ones sense of enslavement and disempowerment. Limitations can manifest as some of the following:

Being too attached to the outcome

Feeling desperate about conceiving a child

Feeling helpless and dependent on others

The fear that the next pregnancy test will be negative

Feeling inadequate

Feeling like a failure

Feeling defective

Feeling unworthy

The need to please ones partner

The fear that time is running out

And more

If you feel any of the above apply to you notice what the effect on your stress level is.

I have developed a new Mind/Body modality called the Mind Resonance Process which helps you release all limiting and negative beliefs that separate you from your body allowing you to begin reclaiming control over your entire being.

The net result is that you can again begin to love your body, reunite with it and gently guide it to where you most desire.